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All I need to know about parenting I learned from my parents

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"old coyote" <the_oldcoy…@yahoo.com> wrote in message

news:Xns933BF1B8DD9E2oldcoyote@130.133.1.4 > I really coould have written your post, I identified with it that > much. Yeah, "What look?" > Just one question (tongue-in-cheek, of course), when a parent hits > you in Australia, do you have a tendancy to spin counterclockwise?

Gee I had to think about that, um depended which side of the head you got slapped on, trouble with having a parent who was ambidextrous you had to watch for both left and right hooks. (lol……..actually thats not funny) Regards Lee

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"Jamal Chapultapec" <Y…@email.com> wrote in message

news:Xns933ABFBC3284Fjchapultapecyahoocom@68.1.17.6… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > hit. > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > better. > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > past. > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > lying. > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > their children, is "parenting." > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > parent.

That is in part why my parents are 6000 miles away, and I ran away from home just as soon as it was legal.

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On Tue, 11 Mar 2003 19:48:31 +1300, GlennT babbled on about Re: All I need to know about parenting I learned from my parents proclaiming: >> either we poop , >> or we don’t sit on the toilet >Poop and parenting go together like horse and carriage…

Then it stands to reason that poop and horses go together like parents and carriages. Hey wait… they DO go together. How about that!

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"Ugly" <bababo…@drlauramail.com> Puked Forth This Little Ditty > Shit or get off the pot? Well, my daughter is female, believe it or not, so I guess she’s > entitled to sit there even when taking a piss.

she’ll do as i tell her and that’ll be an end to it

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"Ugly" <bababo…@drlauramail.com> Dribbled Out This Nonsense > Some of us have been — and have made sweeping emotional reforms so as not to repeat our > parents’ stupidity.

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On Mon, 10 Mar 2003 23:43:26 -0700, % babbled on about Re: All I need to know about parenting I learned from my parents proclaiming: >either we poop , >or we don’t sit on the toilet

Shit or get off the pot? Well, my daughter is female, believe it or not, so I guess she’s entitled to sit there even when taking a piss.

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On Mon, 10 Mar 2003 23:44:22 -0700, % babbled on about Re: All I need to know about parenting I learned from my parents proclaiming: >> Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. >> GlennT >you’ve never been hit

Some of us have been — and have made sweeping emotional reforms so as not to repeat our parents’ stupidity.

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On Tue, 11 Mar 2003 19:41:27 +1300, GlennT babbled on about Re: All I need to know about parenting I learned from my parents proclaiming: >Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. >Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they >even begin.

I’ve always wanted a child. Now I have one and love my two-year old dearly. Oh she can be a challenge, but she’s wonderful. Now, for acting up today, she forfeit her chocolate milk privileges, but that will be reinstated tomorrow. >Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into >the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes >to parenting.

I’ve acknowledged that I’m ultimately responsible for my daughter’s actions. Until she starts high school. Then she’s on her own as far as responsibility goes. If she hasn’t learned any by then, there’s nothing else I can teach her. I was prepared for the long haul. My wife wasn’t, but now it’s too late. She’s getting the hang of it. >Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not.

And either way, too bad. It’s too late.

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"Jamal Chapultapec" <Y…@email.com> wrote in message

news:Xns933C9BDE861BBjchapultapecyahoocom@68.1.17.6… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Flashfire" <flashfirecanbefo…@iprimus.com.au> wrote in > news:3e6ee7f2_1@news.iprimus.com.au: > > "old coyote" <the_oldcoy…@yahoo.com> wrote in message > > news:Xns933C25578404oldcoyote@130.133.1.4 > >> Well, it is funny, kind of, … now at least.  I lol when I wrote it > >> because it *does* carry more than an element of truth.  My father was > > Yeah it is funny in a morbid black humor sense. :) > >> left handed and it took me years to learn how to take that left-cross > >> on my right eyebrow.  I went through most of my sophomore year in > >> highschool without that eybrow because the hair kept falling of from > >> being swollen and black an blue all of the time. > > I usually had both eyes blackened, my mother of course always got away > > with the clumsy child excuse and in her defence I must say there were > > a few she was accused of that were because I was clumsy. (I still have > > a balance problem that means I walk into walls quite often and trip > > over nothing) Not that any of the accusers wanted to make an issue of > > it, because they knew what a vicious nasty bitch my mother was. > >>People used to laugh at me because it looked stupid (here we go.. bad > > memory > >> triggered).  I never fought back though… and I really do think that > > Go easy on yourself > >> I could have taken him by that time. The feeling that I remember is > >> something like not wanting him to experience the loss of dignity and > >> shame that I was experiencing, even though he was inflicting it upon > >> me.  Now that’s freaking sick! > > No its not sick, the only time I ever came close to fighting back was > > when I was 25 years of age, my mother and I were having an argument, > > or more like she was screaming at me over some imagined wrong. And I > > turned to walk away, she grabbed me and slapped me hard across the > > face. I remember slamming against the wall of her house and blood > > pissing out of my nose. I looked past her and I remember  seeing my 2 > > year old son looking at me in fear. His eyes filling with tears > > because he didnt understand what was happening. I was so ashamed that > > my own son had seen me slapped like a recalcitrant child, I lost it. I > > came off the wall and flew at my mother, my fists balled and I > > screamed at her that I would kill her, she said I did not have what it > > took to fight her, and then I said I did not care, if she hit me > > again, I would fight her and it didnt matter how long it took at the > > end one of us would be dead and I didnt care which one of us it was. > > She just looked at me like I was something she had never come across > > before and as she stood there, I saw her deflate somehow, she was > > defeated and walked away. I was so scared I was shaking, I picked up > > my son and left, on my way home I started to cry, not because I had > > stood up to her but because I had humiliated her and made her look > > weak. As soon as I got home I rang her and apologised. Regards Lee > Dude, you’re a fucking pussy. You gave that bitch what she had coming to > her and APOLOGIZED? Oi.

I think its more of an old-habits-die-hard sort of thing.

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> "DaKitty" <connie…@cb-design.net> wrote in > news:1UAba.1402$DV.1365@newssvr19.news.prodigy.com: >> Mine never punched much, they just threatened they’ll sell me, give >> me away, drive me off to the other side of town and leave me there, >> drop me off in an orphanage, sell me to the gypsies. >> Sometimes my dad would grab me and drag me off in the car and start >> driving….

Thats the other side of the coin, with the physical came the emotional, I think I was in my teens, before I realised my name was not "you stupid, useless bitch" I was threatened with the convent and what the nuns would do to me so many times that I am still uncomfortable around nuns. And the only prediction that my parents made that ever came true, was the one about having me locked up in a prison somewhere. I spent nine years in a prison. But I was a prison officer and I had the keys. LOL. Regards Lee

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"Flashfire" <flashfirecanbefo…@iprimus.com.au> wrote in news:3e6ee7f2_1@news.iprimus.com.au: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "old coyote" <the_oldcoy…@yahoo.com> wrote in message > news:Xns933C25578404oldcoyote@130.133.1.4 >> Well, it is funny, kind of, … now at least.  I lol when I wrote it >> because it *does* carry more than an element of truth.  My father was > Yeah it is funny in a morbid black humor sense. :) >> left handed and it took me years to learn how to take that left-cross >> on my right eyebrow.  I went through most of my sophomore year in >> highschool without that eybrow because the hair kept falling of from >> being swollen and black an blue all of the time. > I usually had both eyes blackened, my mother of course always got away > with the clumsy child excuse and in her defence I must say there were > a few she was accused of that were because I was clumsy. (I still have > a balance problem that means I walk into walls quite often and trip > over nothing) Not that any of the accusers wanted to make an issue of > it, because they knew what a vicious nasty bitch my mother was. >>People used to laugh at me because it looked stupid (here we go.. bad > memory >> triggered).  I never fought back though… and I really do think that > Go easy on yourself >> I could have taken him by that time. The feeling that I remember is >> something like not wanting him to experience the loss of dignity and >> shame that I was experiencing, even though he was inflicting it upon >> me.  Now that’s freaking sick! > No its not sick, the only time I ever came close to fighting back was > when I was 25 years of age, my mother and I were having an argument, > or more like she was screaming at me over some imagined wrong. And I > turned to walk away, she grabbed me and slapped me hard across the > face. I remember slamming against the wall of her house and blood > pissing out of my nose. I looked past her and I remember  seeing my 2 > year old son looking at me in fear. His eyes filling with tears > because he didnt understand what was happening. I was so ashamed that > my own son had seen me slapped like a recalcitrant child, I lost it. I > came off the wall and flew at my mother, my fists balled and I > screamed at her that I would kill her, she said I did not have what it > took to fight her, and then I said I did not care, if she hit me > again, I would fight her and it didnt matter how long it took at the > end one of us would be dead and I didnt care which one of us it was. > She just looked at me like I was something she had never come across > before and as she stood there, I saw her deflate somehow, she was > defeated and walked away. I was so scared I was shaking, I picked up > my son and left, on my way home I started to cry, not because I had > stood up to her but because I had humiliated her and made her look > weak. As soon as I got home I rang her and apologised. Regards Lee

Dude, you’re a fucking pussy. You gave that bitch what she had coming to her and APOLOGIZED? Oi.

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"old coyote" <the_oldcoy…@yahoo.com> wrote in message

news:Xns933C25578404oldcoyote@130.133.1.4 > Well, it is funny, kind of, … now at least.  I lol when I wrote it > because it *does* carry more than an element of truth.  My father was

Yeah it is funny in a morbid black humor sense. :) > left handed and it took me years to learn how to take that left-cross > on my right eyebrow.  I went through most of my sophomore year in > highschool without that eybrow because the hair kept falling of from > being swollen and black an blue all of the time.

I usually had both eyes blackened, my mother of course always got away with the clumsy child excuse and in her defence I must say there were a few she was accused of that were because I was clumsy. (I still have a balance problem that means I walk into walls quite often and trip over nothing) Not that any of the accusers wanted to make an issue of it, because they knew what a vicious nasty bitch my mother was. >People used to laugh at me because it looked stupid (here we go.. bad memory > triggered).  I never fought back though… and I really do think that

Go easy on yourself > I could have taken him by that time. The feeling that I remember is > something like not wanting him to experience the loss of dignity and > shame that I was experiencing, even though he was inflicting it upon > me.  Now that’s freaking sick!

No its not sick, the only time I ever came close to fighting back was when I was 25 years of age, my mother and I were having an argument, or more like she was screaming at me over some imagined wrong. And I turned to walk away, she grabbed me and slapped me hard across the face. I remember slamming against the wall of her house and blood pissing out of my nose. I looked past her and I remember  seeing my 2 year old son looking at me in fear. His eyes filling with tears because he didnt understand what was happening. I was so ashamed that my own son had seen me slapped like a recalcitrant child, I lost it. I came off the wall and flew at my mother, my fists balled and I screamed at her that I would kill her, she said I did not have what it took to fight her, and then I said I did not care, if she hit me again, I would fight her and it didnt matter how long it took at the end one of us would be dead and I didnt care which one of us it was. She just looked at me like I was something she had never come across before and as she stood there, I saw her deflate somehow, she was defeated and walked away. I was so scared I was shaking, I picked up my son and left, on my way home I started to cry, not because I had stood up to her but because I had humiliated her and made her look weak. As soon as I got home I rang her and apologised. Regards Lee

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"old coyote" <the_oldcoy…@yahoo.com> wrote in message

news:Xns933CB185013oldcoyote@130.133.1.4… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "DaKitty" <connie…@cb-design.net> wrote in > news:1UAba.1402$DV.1365@newssvr19.news.prodigy.com: > > "Flashfire" <flashfirecanbefo…@iprimus.com.au> wrote in message > > news:3e6ed644_1@news.iprimus.com.au… > >> And adding to that. > >> If your parent speaks to you and you dont answer fast enough, you are > > being > >> sullen and sulky and deserved to be punched in the face. > >> If you do answer quickly, then you should not have taken that tone of > > voice > >> and looked like that, so you deserve a punch in the face <i think > >> that was the one that broke my nose> > >> Did any of you when you were kids, practice looking wide eyed and > > innocent. > >> Because I did, only because I often got slapped, punched or kicked, > > because > >> my parent didnt like that look on my face. I still think to this day, > >> WHAT FUCKING LOOK.??? > >> Regards Lee > > Mine never punched much, they just threatened they’ll sell me, give me > > away, drive me off to the other side of town and leave me there, drop > > me off in an orphanage, sell me to the gypsies. > > Sometimes my dad would grab me and drag me off in the car and start > > driving…. > > Then as I got to be 14, 15 or 16… > > "If you were the last girl in the world I’d stay on the other side of > > the globe" > > "I pity the guy that ends up with you" > > "You’re not even a girl" > > on and on and on…. > > I often thought, I’d rather be hit. > > Then I ended up marrying a brainwashing abuser that turned somewhat > > physically violent. I guess that made me feel right at home. > > Nice guys… I’m not good enough for nice guys. > I don’t really know what I want to say, Connie.  Those experiences were > horrible.  I’m terribly sorry that you had to endure them.

Thank you :) heh, well, it all left me with a nice panic anxiety disorder and a major fear of abandonment that reeks havoc in my relationships with men. (I cling and cling and cling, and looong after I know I cling oh so pathetically, I still continue to cling) Well, maybe I ended up liking Dave, he seems to have that approach to life that is similar to mine, ‘what the hell is the point, everyone is just gonna hate me anyway’ Logically, I think different, emotionally, I don’t feel it. So, I try to live on logic and willpower.  On a normal day, I’m really really good at dissociating my feelings from events and acting based on logic. Sometimes they break, and feelings get in a way. (Or feelings get too strong) Then everything goes haywire.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -eerie pimp wrote: > "GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message > news:3E6D8692.FA60718B@noname.com… > > "%" wrote: > > > "GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message > > > news:3E6D8517.D959D6B5@noname.com… > > > > Jamal Chapultapec wrote: > > > > > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > > > > > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should > be > > > > > hit. > > > > > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which > is > > > > > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > > > > > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes > them > > > > > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of > your > > > > > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily > done > > > > > better. > > > > > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in > the > > > > > past. > > > > > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the > past, > > > > > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > > > > > lying. > > > > > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > > > > > their children, is "parenting." > > > > > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a > good > > > > > parent. > > > > Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. > > > > Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they > > > > even begin. > > > > Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into > > > > the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes > > > > to parenting. > > > > Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. > > > > GlennT > > > you’ve never been hit > > Yes I have! In fact it was pretty hard! It involved blood and > > everything. > > GlennT > I never was,but was still pretty scretty screwed up. (and remain so).  But I > now I can understand how being abused could turn someone into a > lone-weirdo-on-the-roof with a 30.06 deer rifle.

I can understand intense personal anger, particularly when it has no specific target, as I have had it for years. In the end letting go of that anger was surprisingly easy. It became easy when I realized the only person I was hurting was myself. GlennT

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"Flashfire" <flashfirecanbefo…@iprimus.com.au> wrote in message

news:3e6ed644_1@news.iprimus.com.au… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> And adding to that. > If your parent speaks to you and you dont answer fast enough, you are being > sullen and sulky and deserved to be punched in the face. > If you do answer quickly, then you should not have taken that tone of voice > and looked like that, so you deserve a punch in the face <i think that was > the one that broke my nose> > Did any of you when you were kids, practice looking wide eyed and innocent. > Because I did, only because I often got slapped, punched or kicked, because > my parent didnt like that look on my face. I still think to this day, WHAT > FUCKING LOOK.??? > Regards Lee

Mine never punched much, they just threatened they’ll sell me, give me away, drive me off to the other side of town and leave me there, drop me off in an orphanage, sell me to the gypsies. Sometimes my dad would grab me and drag me off in the car and start driving…. Then as I got to be 14, 15 or 16… "If you were the last girl in the world I’d stay on the other side of the globe" "I pity the guy that ends up with you" "You’re not even a girl" on and on and on…. I often thought, I’d rather be hit. Then I ended up marrying a brainwashing abuser that turned somewhat physically violent. I guess that made me feel right at home. Nice guys… I’m not good enough for nice guys.

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And adding to that. If your parent speaks to you and you dont answer fast enough, you are being sullen and sulky and deserved to be punched in the face. If you do answer quickly, then you should not have taken that tone of voice and looked like that, so you deserve a punch in the face <i think that was the one that broke my nose> Did any of you when you were kids, practice looking wide eyed and innocent. Because I did, only because I often got slapped, punched or kicked, because my parent didnt like that look on my face. I still think to this day, WHAT FUCKING LOOK.??? Regards Lee

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"GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message

news:3E6D8692.FA60718B@noname.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "%" wrote: > > "GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message > > news:3E6D8517.D959D6B5@noname.com… > > > Jamal Chapultapec wrote: > > > > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > > > > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > > > > hit. > > > > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > > > > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > > > > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > > > > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > > > > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > > > > better. > > > > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > > > > past. > > > > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > > > > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > > > > lying. > > > > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > > > > their children, is "parenting." > > > > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > > > > parent. > > > Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. > > > Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they > > > even begin. > > > Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into > > > the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes > > > to parenting. > > > Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. > > > GlennT > > you’ve never been hit > Yes I have! In fact it was pretty hard! It involved blood and > everything. > GlennT

I never was,but was still pretty scretty screwed up. (and remain so).  But I now I can understand how being abused could turn someone into a lone-weirdo-on-the-roof with a 30.06 deer rifle.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"%" wrote: > "GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message > news:3E6D8517.D959D6B5@noname.com… > > Jamal Chapultapec wrote: > > > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > > > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > > > hit. > > > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > > > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > > > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > > > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > > > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > > > better. > > > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > > > past. > > > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > > > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > > > lying. > > > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > > > their children, is "parenting." > > > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > > > parent. > > Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. > > Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they > > even begin. > > Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into > > the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes > > to parenting. > > Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. > > Glenn T. > either we poop , > or we don’t sit on the toilet

Poop and parenting go together like horse and carriage… GlennT

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"%" wrote: > "GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message > news:3E6D8517.D959D6B5@noname.com… > > Jamal Chapultapec wrote: > > > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > > > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > > > hit. > > > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > > > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > > > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > > > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > > > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > > > better. > > > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > > > past. > > > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > > > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > > > lying. > > > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > > > their children, is "parenting." > > > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > > > parent. > > Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. > > Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they > > even begin. > > Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into > > the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes > > to parenting. > > Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. > > GlennT > you’ve never been hit

Yes I have! In fact it was pretty hard! It involved blood and everything. GlennT

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"GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message

news:3E6D8517.D959D6B5@noname.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Jamal Chapultapec wrote: > > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > > hit. > > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > > better. > > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > > past. > > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > > lying. > > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > > their children, is "parenting." > > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > > parent. > Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. > Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they > even begin. > Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into > the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes > to parenting. > Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. > GlennT

you’ve never been hit

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"GlennT" <as…@noname.com> wrote in message

news:3E6D8517.D959D6B5@noname.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Jamal Chapultapec wrote: > > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > > hit. > > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > > better. > > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > > past. > > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > > lying. > > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > > their children, is "parenting." > > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > > parent. > Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. > Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they > even begin. > Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into > the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes > to parenting. > Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. > Glenn T.

either we poop , or we don’t sit on the toilet

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WHY DID YOU MAKE ME BEAT  YOU? "%" <surfs@uniserve> wrote in message

news:v6qk4s6s1brq05@corp.supernews.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Jamal Chapultapec" <Y…@email.com> wrote in message > news:Xns933ABFBC3284Fjchapultapecyahoocom@68.1.17.6… > > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > > hit. > right > > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > right > > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > > better. > so they should be hit > > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > > past. > and hit them for being wrong > > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > > lying. > and hit them twice > > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > > their children, is "parenting." > so is a good hit > > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > > parent. > and both are allowed to hit

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Jamal Chapultapec wrote: > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > hit. > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > disrespectful, and so they should be hit. > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > better. > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > past. > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > lying. > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > their children, is "parenting." > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > parent.

Parents who love their kids never hurt them intentionally. Parents who have kids as an accessory have failed before they even begin. Don’t have kids unless you are prepared to invest many years into the project. Don’t blame because blame is pointless when it comes to parenting. Either we are prepared to the job… or we are not. GlennT

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"Jamal Chapultapec" <Y…@email.com> wrote in message

news:Xns933ABFBC3284Fjchapultapecyahoocom@68.1.17.6… > 1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to > keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be > hit.

right > 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is > disrespectful, and so they should be hit.

right > 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them > a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your > child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done > better.

so they should be hit > 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the > past.

and hit them for being wrong > 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, > tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of > lying.

and hit them twice > 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to > their children, is "parenting."

so is a good hit > 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good > parent.

and both are allowed to hit

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1. If you child doesn’t look you in the eyes, they must be trying to keep something from you, which is disrespectful, and so they should be hit. 2. If you child looks you in the eyes, they’re being defiant, which is disrespectful, and so they should be hit. 3. Your child is a synthesis of you and your mate, since that makes them a mere product, they must be inferior, and so any achievement of your child should not be lauded, as you or your mate could have easily done better. 4. Never cease to remind your child of any mistakes they’ve made in the past. 5. If your child ever reminds you of a mistake you’ve made in the past, tell them their memory of the event is incorrect or accuse them of lying. 6. Childish behavior (bullying, taunting,) when done by a parent to their children, is "parenting." 7. There is no difference between being a good provider and being a good parent.

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