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Is it the season?

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Is it the season for all the BM’s in the world to come together (or fall apart as the case may be) and completely come unglued? During the week, along about Wednesday or so, S2BDH called both BMs to ask about having the children for the weekend.  He had been out of town for over a week and wanted to take them to the movies Friday afternoon.  Both BMs agreed. He picked up SS8 from after-school daycare and SD4 from preschool.  Took both of his kidlings, plus my BD6, to see Dinosaur. (I was at work.)  Somewhere along in there, BM1 completely lost it and called the cops, stating that S2BDH had "kidnapped" SS.  When S2BDH brought SS back to BM’s apartment, she didn’t bother to hug SS, ask if everything was okay, nothing.  Both of the little girls were crying, because they didn’t understand what was going on, and thought that Daddy was going to jail.  Then BM1 turned around and told S2BDH that he could pick SS up at 10 this morning (Saturday).  What is wrong with this picture? I advised S2BDH to head to Radio Shack and pick up one of those contraptions that hooks into the telephone line and tapes anytime the receiver is lifted. It is now set up and operational, just waiting for either BM to call and pitch a fit, agree to a visit, or whatever.  (For those who would question the legality of this, in the state of MO, as long as one party being taped knows about it, it’s perfectly legal.) The wedding is three weeks away.  I love this man; I love his children.  I cannot stand his ex-wives.  How some of you manage in your circumstances is beyond me.  Thanks for allowing me to share. Kate (aka "Meaghan’s Mom")    KFairlei at AOL dot COM       ICQ 6802119 Single mom, Registered Nurse, aspiring midwife "Don’t just live the length of your life, live the width of it as well."                                       –Diane Ackerman

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>How some of you manage in your circumstances is >beyond me.  

bubble bath, the occasional glass of wine and LOTS OF COFFEE! Love, Melissa "Every once in awhile declare peace; it confuses the hell out of your enemies"        -Ferengi rule of Aquisition #76

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>kevin redwoo…@seeing.org asked: >Any chance of an explanation from BM1?

Not likely. >Is it that she just completely >forgot

Not likely. >(I’m being kind),

That’s one of the things I like about you.  Lucy is such a lucky little girl. > misunderstood (also kind),

See above. > is unable to >understand English?,

Have considered that. >likes to muck your DHS2B around?, has a personality >disorder?

Yes to both of the above.  She hates him.  Don’t know why.  Neither does he. Personality disorder:  Borderline personality, and throw in a healthy dose of "only if it works for me"-itis. >I don’t know – at some level I guess BM1 felt she was acting in the best >interests of her son, but the tape sounds like a great idea. Does she >just simply deny having agreed to this?

No, her story is that the divorce decree states Saturday morning at 10am until Sunday afternoon at 3pm.  They have *never* gone by the visitation guidelines outlined there, and he has always picked up SS from after-school care on Friday afternoons and takes him home after dinner Sunday evening. However, if that’s the way she wants to play, the order is very specific, as far as days during the week, holidays, summer time, etc., and we will be more than happy to go by those–more time with SS. hehehehehe Kate (aka "Meaghan’s Mom")    KFairlei at AOL dot COM       ICQ 6802119 Single mom, Registered Nurse, aspiring midwife "Don’t just live the length of your life, live the width of it as well."                                       –Diane Ackerman

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>I think in the case of all the BM’s at times the BM stands for >basically mental, ~grin~

Ha-ha!  Maybe there is something to this season idea, because we got a six page Bozo-gram on Friday, after not hearing from her for four wonderful weeks.  We are still figuring out which parts to even acknowledge.  She did tell us her SO is now out of the picture (Imagine that!!) and throwing up in our faces that we have two incomes here, so we should pay for ALL of SD’s private school.  Sigh. Most of this letter is just plain crap, as usual.  The first paragraph was about allowing her to call our house, AGAIN.  (After we have told her no a million times.) Oh, well.  This is why we insist everything is in writing … it can be used as evidence. Geri ~~~~~~~~ "There is no snooze button on a cat who wants breakfast."- Anonymous ~~~~~~~~~~

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>bubble bath, the occasional glass of wine and LOTS OF COFFEE! >Love, >Melissa

Melissa, the way I’m feeling right now, you’ve got that backwards.  The occasional coffee and LOTS OF WINE.  :-) Anne H. "To the world you might be one person, but to one person you might be  the world."

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Any chance of an explanation from BM1? Is it that she just completely forgot (I’m being kind), misunderstood (also kind), is unable to understand English?, likes to muck your DHS2B around?, has a personality disorder? I don’t know – at some level I guess BM1 felt she was acting in the best interests of her son, but the tape sounds like a great idea. Does she just simply deny having agreed to this? Kevin In article <20000527141030.07475.00000…@ng-fb1.aol.com>, posted 27 May 2000 18:10:30 GMT, Kate Fairleigh says… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Is it the season for all the BM’s in the world to come together (or fall apart > as the case may be) and completely come unglued? > During the week, along about Wednesday or so, S2BDH called both BMs to ask > about having the children for the weekend.  He had been out of town for over a > week and wanted to take them to the movies Friday afternoon.  Both BMs agreed. > He picked up SS8 from after-school daycare and SD4 from preschool.  Took both > of his kidlings, plus my BD6, to see Dinosaur. (I was at work.)  Somewhere > along in there, BM1 completely lost it and called the cops, stating that S2BDH > had "kidnapped" SS.  When S2BDH brought SS back to BM’s apartment, she didn’t > bother to hug SS, ask if everything was okay, nothing.  Both of the little > girls were crying, because they didn’t understand what was going on, and > thought that Daddy was going to jail.  Then BM1 turned around and told S2BDH > that he could pick SS up at 10 this morning (Saturday).  What is wrong with > this picture? > I advised S2BDH to head to Radio Shack and pick up one of those contraptions > that hooks into the telephone line and tapes anytime the receiver is lifted. > It is now set up and operational, just waiting for either BM to call and pitch > a fit, agree to a visit, or whatever.  (For those who would question the > legality of this, in the state of MO, as long as one party being taped knows > about it, it’s perfectly legal.) > The wedding is three weeks away.  I love this man; I love his children.  I > cannot stand his ex-wives.  How some of you manage in your circumstances is > beyond me.  Thanks for allowing me to share. > Kate (aka "Meaghan’s Mom")    KFairlei at AOL dot COM       ICQ 6802119 > Single mom, Registered Nurse, aspiring midwife > "Don’t just live the length of your life, live the width of it as well." >                                       –Diane Ackerman

– HOW TO KEEP A HEALTHY LEVEL OF INSANITY 1) At lunchtime, sit in your parked car and point a hair dryer at passing cars to see if they slow down.

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In article <20000527141030.07475.00000…@ng-fb1.aol.com>, kfair…@aol.comspamsux (Kate Fairleigh) wrote: > Is it the season for all the BM’s in the world to come together > (or fall apart > as the case may be) and completely come unglued?

Hi Kate, I think in the case of all the BM’s at times the BM stands for basically mental, ~grin~ > During the week, along about Wednesday or so, S2BDH called both > BMs to ask > about having the children for the weekend.  He had been out of > town for over a > week and wanted to take them to the movies Friday afternoon.  Both > BMs agreed. > He picked up SS8 from after-school daycare and SD4 from preschool. >  Took both > of his kidlings, plus my BD6, to see Dinosaur. (I was at work.) > Somewhere > along in there, BM1 completely lost it and called the cops, > stating that S2BDH > had "kidnapped" SS.

Had this happen to me, BM dropped the oldest off and asked me if she could stay and if I could return her by 4:00.  Half hour later, squad cars were all around my house, and they were telling me to put down my weapons, and come out with my hands up.  I didn’t have a clue, just about wet myself.  I was at the station for 4 hours.  A neighbor who didn’t know me, called the station to see what I had done, and she explained that she saw everything.  She tried this 4 more times, and they finally told her to either stop or next time she would be charged. ~grin~  When S2BDH brought SS back to BM’s apartment, – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> she didn’t > bother to hug SS, ask if everything was okay, nothing.  Both of > the little > girls were crying, because they didn’t understand what was going > on, and > thought that Daddy was going to jail.  Then BM1 turned around and > told S2BDH > that he could pick SS up at 10 this morning (Saturday).  What is > wrong with > this picture? > I advised S2BDH to head to Radio Shack and pick up one of those > contraptions > that hooks into the telephone line and tapes anytime the receiver > is lifted. > It is now set up and operational, just waiting for either BM to > call and pitch > a fit, agree to a visit, or whatever.  (For those who would > question the > legality of this, in the state of MO, as long as one party being > taped knows > about it, it’s perfectly legal.)

We were told by our lawyer to do this, in the begining she was careful as to what she said.  She hung herself in the end though, the state used some of it against her and removed all custody from her and put the kids in protection.  She still to this day can’t figure out why she can’t see her kids. > The wedding is three weeks away.  I love this man; I love his > children.  I > cannot stand his ex-wives.  How some of you manage in your > circumstances is > beyond me.  Thanks for allowing me to share.

Hope you can put an end to these dumb games with the BM’s in your life. Take care Kathi * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!

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