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Part I – What you should know about MULAY

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Anyone new to this NG would be wise to read this & realize exactly what he’s about (i.e., "he" being the pathetic troublemaking looney who keeps spewing his filth in here)…. you’ve been warned :-) Yep, from the e-mail that "Zootwoman" sent to Doug R., then he posted it here, lol : – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ok Mr. Marc V Mulay, you asked for it: Heres a letter from your friend regarding your past: I met him at that net magazine Spark-online.com. There were about 15 of us who posted there regularly, mostly writers and creatives. He wrote some nice things. I’m sure you saw the links he obsessively posted. I felt like we were friends. At the time I was bored and a little lonely. He talked me into working out and taking better care of myself. At one point he seemed so depressed that he was contemplating suicide. This is when I really put my foot in it cause I saw a series of posts that I considered to be serious threats to kill himself and I called the Orange County police to do a welfare check. So we emailed frequently until he would start to hate me or think I was stalking him or trying to control him. Then I wouldn’t hear from him for 3 or 4 months like he does here at AGA. His sister was schizophrenic and killed herself about four years ago. Between that and some other stuff, I think he cracked. I sincerely believe that he can’t control these outbursts. When he’s stable he’s a really nice guy. I’ve never actually met him face to face though. I’ve seen pictures of his family including the ex and her parents. He talks about his family a lot. I’m sure he totally loves his wife and girls. We were just efriends, tenuous friends at best (visualize fairy godmother, genie or something). He’s turned on me a couple of times but I realized that it was just what ever it is that he suffers from. It must be awful for his wife. I hope she’s aware. She has to be, which means that the school must know as well. I would never fired someone because their spouse had mental problems. He told me about the time he got arrested for resisting arrest for crossing the street not in a cross walk while joggin. I know this is true cause I had to help him make sure his record was correct (via phone/clerks office). I have a legal background and this story is too long and involved. I don’t know what you think, but I was just trying to watch out for him. My mother was nuts. I guess this was my way to try to make up for not being able to be there for her. I don’t know. It’s really sad and in a way he saved me by getting me to start taking care of myself. I helped him find a job a couple of times by collecting job openings and emailing off his resume. Mainly it encouraged him to get a job but they didn’t last on account of his condition – he doesn’t admit it although sometimes he’ll mention his medication. The first time I emailed him he stated he was taking meds and asked if it scared me. I used the word nuts earlier, but you know people don’t choose to be crazy. I’m not able to diagnose what is wrong with Marc, but I’m sure he can’t afford treatment. It’s a shame. He could have been a good writer. He wrote a book about the first job loss that helped send him over the edge. I have a copy. It’s clear that whoever wrote it was disturbed (as they should have been) but most of us have the capacity to recover. It’s funny, even though I’ve never met him and he’s done some awful things to me (like the recent postings) I care enough about him as a human being to feel badly for him and his family. I’m sorry that he’s harassed you. I heard about it and Harris from his side. He needs a friend but I think it would be nearly impossible and exceedingly stressful to try to be one. He always riffs about how alone he is and that’s the way he likes it. It’s hard enough for me, 2000 miles and the internet removed, to be tolerant. From time to time I’ve considered calling his wife but I think that would only make the situation worse if he’s been able to hide his behavior from her by acting out here. Who really knows??? I’ve been talking to him for 3 or 4 years – on line and on the phone 3 or 4 times. I’m sure he’s mentally unstable. I’ve seen him lose at least three jobs. The last one was a great job. I wish I had that job. He did what he just did to me, sort of, and I guess what he did to you. He became paranoid and started to make accusations, called up one of the clients and told them the company was going out of business. He got fired and they got a court order. I think they were going to sue him but since he’s broke they dropped the suit in exchange for an apology to the client. The really wierd thing was that he sent me the original court document of the settlement like I should have it and then told me to never contact him again. I didn’t, other than posting at AGA.  I just tried to be a friend, that’s all. I feel badly for his wife. She must truely be a Saint. It’s too bad, he’s smart, funny and can be quite generous when he’s "normal."  Well, it’s not your enemy that knifes you in the back, it’s your friend. I shoulda backed off immediately. I saw it coming. I started having fun and getting to know some of the guys so I didn’t want to be pushed off the group. I didn’t think he’d attack me quite so viciously. Wrong. I’m sure he’ll be back unless he actually destroyed his computer like he said he did.  He did this at the other dboard. He’d leave and then come back. He’d tell me to never talk to him and then three moths later I’d get an email, either he got a job or he lost a job and he’d be friendly until I started to relax and be friendly back and then he start accusing me of trying to control him. I wish there was a magic potion to cure him. It’s such a waste of human potential.

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Anyone new to this NG would be wise to read this & realize exactly what he’s about (i.e., "he" being the pathetic troublemaking looney who keeps spewing his filth in here)…. you’ve been warned :-) Yep, from the e-mail that "Zootwoman" sent to Doug R., then he posted it here, lol : Ok Mr. Tip dover / Stalky, you asked for it: Heres a letter from your friend regarding your past: I met him at that net magazine Spark-online.com. There were about 15 of us who posted there regularly, mostly writers and creatives. He wrote some nice things. I’m sure you saw the links he obsessively posted. I felt like we were friends. At the time I was bored and a little lonely. He talked me into working out and taking better care of myself. At one point he seemed so depressed that he was contemplating suicide. This is when I really put my foot in it cause I saw a series of posts that I considered to be serious threats to kill himself and I called the Orange County police to do a welfare check. So we emailed frequently until he would start to hate me or think I was stalking him or trying to control him. Then I wouldn’t hear from him for 3 or 4 months like he does here at AGA. His mother was schizophrenic and killed herself about four months ago. Between that and some other stuff, I think he cracked. I sincerely believe that he can’t control these outbursts. When he’s stable he’s a really nice guy. I’ve never actually met him face to face though. I’ve seen pictures of his family including the ex and her parents. He talks about his family a lot. I’m sure he totally loves his wife and girls. We were just efriends, tenuous friends at best (visualize fairy godmother, genie or something). He’s turned on me a couple of times but I realized that it was just what ever it is that he suffers from. It must be awful for his wife. I hope she’s aware. She has to be, which means that the school must know as well. I would never fired someone because their spouse had mental problems. He told me about the time he got arrested for resisting arrest for cross dressing. I know this is true cause I had to help him make sure his record was correct (via phone/clerks office). I have a legal background and this story is too long and involved. I don’t know what you think, but I was just trying to watch out for him. My mother was nuts. I guess this was my way to try to make up for not being able to be there for her. I don’t know. It’s really sad and in a way he saved me by getting me to start taking care of myself. I helped him find a job a couple of times by collecting job openings and emailing off his resume. Mainly it encouraged him to get a job but they didn’t last on account of his condition – he doesn’t admit it although sometimes he’ll mention his medication. The first time I emailed him he stated he was taking meds and asked if it scared me. I used the word nuts earlier, but you know people don’t choose to be crazy. I’m not able to diagnose what is wrong with Marc, but I’m sure he can’t afford treatment. It’s a shame. He could have been a good writer. He wrote a book about the first job loss that helped send him over the edge. I have a copy. It’s clear that whoever wrote it was disturbed (as they should have been) but most of us have the capacity to recover. It’s funny, even though I’ve never met him and he’s done some awful things to me (like the recent postings) I care enough about him as a human being to feel badly for him and his family. I’m sorry that he’s harassed you. I heard about it and Harris from his side. He needs a friend but I think it would be nearly impossible and exceedingly stressful to try to be one. He always riffs about how alone he is and that’s the way he likes it. It’s hard enough for me, 2000 miles and the internet removed, to be tolerant. From time to time I’ve considered calling his wife but I think that would only make the situation worse if he’s been able to hide his behavior from her by acting out here. Who really knows??? I’ve been talking to him for 3 or 4 years – on line and on the phone 3 or 4 times. I’m sure he’s mentally unstable. I’ve seen him lose at least three jobs. The last one was a great job. I wish I had that job. He did what he just did to me, sort of, and I guess what he did to you. He became paranoid and started to make accusations, called up one of the clients and told them the company was going out of business. He got fired and they got a court order. I think they were going to sue him but since he’s broke they dropped the suit in exchange for an apology to the client. The really wierd thing was that he sent me the original court document of the settlement like I should have it and then told me to never contact him again. I didn’t, other than posting at AGA.  I just tried to be a friend, that’s all. I feel badly for his wife. She must truely be a Saint. It’s too bad, he’s smart, funny and can be quite generous when he’s "normal."  Well, it’s not your enemy that knifes you in the back, it’s your friend. I shoulda backed off immediately. I saw it coming. I started having fun and getting to know some of the guys so I didn’t want to be pushed off the group. I didn’t think he’d attack me quite so viciously. Wrong. I’m sure he’ll be back unless he actually destroyed his computer like he said he did.  He did this at the other dboard. He’d leave and then come back. He’d tell me to never talk to him and then three moths later I’d get an email, either he got a job or he lost a job and he’d be friendly until I started to relax and be friendly back and then he start accusing me of trying to control him. I wish there was a magic potion to cure him. It’s such a waste of human potential.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Anyone new to this NG would be wise to read this & realize exactly what he’s about (i.e., "he" being the pathetic troublemaking looney who keeps spewing his filth in here)…. you’ve been warned :-) Yep, from the e-mail that "Zootwoman" sent to Doug R., then he posted it here, lol : Ok Mr. Marc V Mulay, you asked for it: Heres a letter from your friend regarding your past: I met him at that net magazine Spark-online.com. There were about 15 of us who posted there regularly, mostly writers and creatives. He wrote some nice things. I’m sure you saw the links he obsessively posted. I felt like we were friends. At the time I was bored and a little lonely. He talked me into working out and taking better care of myself. At one point he seemed so depressed that he was contemplating suicide. This is when I really put my foot in it cause I saw a series of posts that I considered to be serious threats to kill himself and I called the Orange County police to do a welfare check. So we emailed frequently until he would start to hate me or think I was stalking him or trying to control him. Then I wouldn’t hear from him for 3 or 4 months like he does here at AGA. His sister was schizophrenic and killed herself about four years ago. Between that and some other stuff, I think he cracked.

That’s fucked up Marc, someone you trusted with that info posted it on the net. Is that why you lick Kabong’s nutsack? For protection? Rocky and Mary hurt you that bad? Paul was right about you… LOL – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -I sincerely believe that he can’t control these outbursts. When he’s stable he’s a really nice guy. I’ve never actually met him face to face though. I’ve seen pictures of his family including the ex and her parents. He talks about his family a lot. I’m sure he totally loves his wife and girls. We were just efriends, tenuous friends at best (visualize fairy godmother, genie or something). He’s turned on me a couple of times but I realized that it was just what ever it is that he suffers from. It must be awful for his wife. I hope she’s aware. She has to be, which means that the school must know as well. I would never fired someone because their spouse had mental problems. He told me about the time he got arrested for resisting arrest for crossing the street not in a cross walk while joggin. I know this is true cause I had to help him make sure his record was correct (via phone/clerks office). I have a legal background and this story is too long and involved. I don’t know what you think, but I was just trying to watch out for him. My mother was nuts. I guess this was my way to try to make up for not being able to be there for her. I don’t know. It’s really sad and in a way he saved me by getting me to start taking care of myself. I helped him find a job a couple of times by collecting job openings and emailing off his resume. Mainly it encouraged him to get a job but they didn’t last on account of his condition – he doesn’t admit it although sometimes he’ll mention his medication. The first time I emailed him he stated he was taking meds and asked if it scared me. I used the word nuts earlier, but you know people don’t choose to be crazy. I’m not able to diagnose what is wrong with Marc, but I’m sure he can’t afford treatment. It’s a shame. He could have been a good writer. He wrote a book about the first job loss that helped send him over the edge. I have a copy. It’s clear that whoever wrote it was disturbed (as they should have been) but most of us have the capacity to recover. It’s funny, even though I’ve never met him and he’s done some awful things to me (like the recent postings) I care enough about him as a human being to feel badly for him and his family. I’m sorry that he’s harassed you. I heard about it and Harris from his side. He needs a friend but I think it would be nearly impossible and exceedingly stressful to try to be one. He always riffs about how alone he is and that’s the way he likes it. It’s hard enough for me, 2000 miles and the internet removed, to be tolerant. From time to time I’ve considered calling his wife but I think that would only make the situation worse if he’s been able to hide his behavior from her by acting out here. Who really knows??? I’ve been talking to him for 3 or 4 years – on line and on the phone 3 or 4 times. I’m sure he’s mentally unstable. I’ve seen him lose at least three jobs. The last one was a great job. I wish I had that job. He did what he just did to me, sort of, and I guess what he did to you. He became paranoid and started to make accusations, called up one of the clients and told them the company was going out of business. He got fired and they got a court order. I think they were going to sue him but since he’s broke they dropped the suit in exchange for an apology to the client. The really wierd thing was that he sent me the original court document of the settlement like I should have it and then told me to never contact him again. I didn’t, other than posting at AGA.  I just tried to be a friend, that’s all. I feel badly for his wife. She must truely be a Saint. It’s too bad, he’s smart, funny and can be quite generous when he’s "normal."  Well, it’s not your enemy that knifes you in the back, it’s your friend. I shoulda backed off immediately. I saw it coming. I started having fun and getting to know some of the guys so I didn’t want to be pushed off the group. I didn’t think he’d attack me quite so viciously. Wrong. I’m sure he’ll be back unless he actually destroyed his computer like he said he did.  He did this at the other dboard. He’d leave and then come back. He’d tell me to never talk to him and then three moths later I’d get an email, either he got a job or he lost a job and he’d be friendly until I started to relax and be friendly back and then he start accusing me of trying to control him. I wish there was a magic potion to cure him. It’s such a waste of human potential.

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