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Dearest Gina~ ACH! I no see masel as such!! I hope sooooo much ya still feel this way when Bri goes back 2 work & I am sniffin & sobbing! Just make me git oot af my "pity party" k ??? I will REALLY Need it! I learn soooo much fae all here – mare than I can put in words! In all this time I no really see much af "learn 2 key in English" – ppl here are kind & loving 2 me & I sooo much need tha`! Plz say a wee prayer tha` BT keeps me online!! I would sorely miss all here if I had 2 wait until Aug 12th!! HUGE HUGGLES~ Tisha – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Gina wrote: > Dear Tish….Have I told you lately just how much of an inspiration you > are to me ? Well….let me say it again. Reading you words of > encouragement is always so uplifting. We’re very fortunate to have > someone with your understanding, compassion and strength here. Thank > you. > Hugs and Smiles, (and I always mean it when I smile) > Gina
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Dear Tish….Have I told you lately just how much of an inspiration you are to me ? Well….let me say it again. Reading you words of encouragement is always so uplifting. We’re very fortunate to have someone with your understanding, compassion and strength here. Thank you. Hugs and Smiles, (and I always mean it when I smile) Gina In article <39861…@news.telinco.net>, "Tish" <bop…@hotmail.com> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Dear Nevena~ > *Smiles* – well if ya haf read *all* the posts then ya know I haf made it > THRU AML & CML <leukemia> …& when Drs tald me I would no live – I did no > belive them – but looked aboot fir othir ways in which 2 stay in this > *known* factor called life! Ach then I was diagonised wif Huntingtons – haf > a MD now who wishes *his* will instead af the patients <me>. His attempt did > no work- instead he was called on it & if still continues *his* path will > haf 2 deal wit the possible loss af his liscense 2 practice. =) > I agree – life has its up & doons *but* life TIS at least a known factor as > I haf 0 recollection af any othir life! =) Nae am I discounting such could > or can happen just tha` I haf 0 memory af a previous life *therefir* I make > the mast af the 1 I haf!!! > Tis ma belief all here are doing such 2 the best af their abilities. Mast > certainly I know mare now than I did at say 17 – or 20 yrs auld! Life tis an > ongoing process af learning, sharing , caring & generally being a human > being!! > I see such in ALL here! Tis an OKIES thin 2 haf a place 2 state where one > tis at in their life *at tha` moment* & seek guidance or consolation! > This tis wha` *I* see ASL tis 4!! > Perhaps ya see it diffy – I no do !! > Tis *really* easy 2 TOTALLY Love oneself & *still* be lonely – sometimes it > lasts fir a wee bit & sometimes it lasts a bit longer. The bottom line tis > .. we repeat the same lessons UNTIL we NO need 2 learn them anymare. If this > were no true – then a babe would NO walk as once she/he had learned 2 crawl > there would be nae any need 2 grow …bah!! Af course ppl here are growing! > Look aboot u- ALL those ya run in2 wit` in yar life are learning – some at > diffy levels or speeds! > Thankies 4 the love =))) Tis a Grand thin 2 pass on! Huggles & love 2 ya~ > Tisha > i read all of your emails and it makes me sad, but i see the young me in > all of you…..i know i may hurt some of you in this email, so if you are > overly sensitive, please dont read it……..but……..you dont > realize how short and precious this life is….and how if you sit there and > admit you are lonely, you are going to be even lonelier…….slowly but > surely you are killing yourself……..yes, you are…….and if you keep on > living like that……on your death bed, you will be sorry and regret the > way you lived your life……ive been through shit unimaginable to any of > you………and every time someone says something and sort of knocks me > down, i find that little strength within myself…..and i get up > again…..thats what it is all about falling and getting up again……..and > you all have to realize that you are strong, and powerful enough, to leave a > mark in this piece of shit world……..yes, you are……dont be afraid to > go out there and show your real colors…..if you are pissed, then show it > to the world, if you are happy let everyone know…..if you are scared look > around for a shelter……and your comfort zone, but dont stay there > forever…..because while you are hiding, there is this whole world that > passes you by in an instant, and you will be so blinded by the walls you > have build up for yourself…..that you will not see it until its > gone…..so please do me a favor.,……..no matter how much it hurts > inside, or how much you are scared…..do something today that will make > you and everyone you know proud of you…….show yourself the way to love > yourself…..after that you will be loved by many > i love you all, and please smile only if you mean it > nevena
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Dearest Sweetest Pamela~ Ya will no evr know haw much tha` means 2 me … as words fail me!!! Huge Huggles just no seem 2 be enuf 4 all the support & love u show each day …nae just 2 me but 2 othirs!! I git a LOT af support fae my hubby <who has stayed hame wit me ehhh aboot 8-10 months – lol – this short term memory loss can be a right bloody pain at times lol!! He tis lookin 4 a job now tho – as funds are failing fast *but* since I haf guid credit I recieved a VISA in the post this day =) It will be used *carefully* but will come in handy! Tis Y I can finally log on again – at least..well I am waitin 4 the PIN card 2 arrive & if it does in the next few days they *state* <BT> they will keep the phone on. WOOHOO! I *try* 2 look at the guid thins in my life evn if they are wee – like a phone & internet connection. It will be VERRA hard tho when Bri goes back 2 work! As then I will haf nae anyone here at hame 2 talk thru the *bad* times! Tis 4 the now I thin af this – hopefully when tha` day comes where he tis working I can summon up the spirit 2 look at it as a challenge! Tis my hope!! Yar affer 2 share all the adventures tis soooo much appreciated! I was sooooo active afore Huntingtons. Evn when I had CML & was in the hospital <experimental program where they believed stress was a factor – soooo they took awa` ALL telly & magazines.etc>…we <patients> found ways 2 *smuggle* in a wee mouse & cage! LOL – Unfortunatley twas *I* who was caught wit the wee mousers! It was underneath the bed <ya know the type in the US where they are auto & can raise up at the push af a button..>. I had the bed *up* in the raised position *but* the lights were on & the nurse couldnae understand just *wha`* tha` noise was! LOL It was the mouse runnin in the cage wheel! =)) I know – I know – in a supposedly sterile environment a mouse was NO the thin 2 keep *but* the patients all had 2 haf a way 2 relieve stress *they* caused! <The Drs,etc>. I *used* 2 b a pilot – built a plane at 1 time – rebuilt auld motor cars in the US – was VERRA active .. now ..those days are gone! No in my mind tho – I can still *replay* them! =) OOOOOO Haw I would Love 2 *do* them again tho! Hearing aboot them tis aboot 98% like being there watching – as I tend 2 *see* wha` I read! =) I am certain I dinnae see it totally correct but the mind tis a wonderful thin! I was sooooo lucky 2 haf met Bri – 2 haf spoken 2 him 4 soooo many years & haf his acceptance & love. Each time when I was in the states where I *insisted* I could no open my heart 2 love as far as a relationship he would tell me haw wrong I was – haw much I was denying anithir person a chance 2 love me back *just the way I am*. When I *finally* opened my heart 2 wha` he was sayin ..he asked me 2 marry him! <meltsssssss> I am 100% certain when Bri returns 2 work a part af me will feel like it died! As silly as tha` must sound – as he will return hame each nite….but will nae be the same! Now – I can watch him climb up the mtns here! Tis a wee bit like doing it masel evn tho I am just watchin. Dunno if tha` makes any sense at all tho!! Be prepared tho when he works 2 see me moan & groan! lol I pretty much know masel & I haf a GRAND feeling this will happen. At tha` time I will probably turn 2 all here !! I can only pray all will be here 4 me & gif me a wee push when I need it 2 no haf a "pity party"! Thankies Pamela…. 4 the gift af ya- 4 yar love af all – 4 the light tha` shines sooo brightly in ya! Tis like hafin a sister I no evr got in real life!! Huge huggles~ Tisha – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Unicorn wrote: > Hugs Tish.. > tis for you I shall hold the balloon in the Leukemia drive at the end of > next month.. we have already begun to get sponsors and even my children will > walk and carry a balloon for hope… > Huntington’s is very, very difficult illness to live with and you are some > kind of special you know.. > Your a wise lady, and your story should be known.. for you keep your chin up > in the most difficult situations.. > you don’t complain, you tell it like it is.. but you should be able to reach > out for your own needs of support too.. > no one’s problems are greater or less than another’s.. however your plate is > about as full as it can get… I know this.. > loneliness is sometimes when your body just doesn’t cooperate the way it > should in reality and life changes make you feel loneliness.. > Tish.. I will tell my adventures for you or any who can’t get out there and > do them themselves.. why.. cause when I go.. I take you in my heart, your > with me everyday, and I look forward to sharing them and making you a part > of them in your heart and head too.. Kay.. as long as I am healthy of body > and spirit.. I chose to live life to it’s fullest.. it’s too short.. it’s > just to short to sit and say I coulda, I shoulda, I woulda, but I didn’t and > the time is now past, I can’t > Pamela
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Hugs Tish.. tis for you I shall hold the balloon in the Leukemia drive at the end of next month.. we have already begun to get sponsors and even my children will walk and carry a balloon for hope… Huntington’s is very, very difficult illness to live with and you are some kind of special you know.. Your a wise lady, and your story should be known.. for you keep your chin up in the most difficult situations.. you don’t complain, you tell it like it is.. but you should be able to reach out for your own needs of support too.. no one’s problems are greater or less than another’s.. however your plate is about as full as it can get… I know this.. loneliness is sometimes when your body just doesn’t cooperate the way it should in reality and life changes make you feel loneliness.. Tish.. I will tell my adventures for you or any who can’t get out there and do them themselves.. why.. cause when I go.. I take you in my heart, your with me everyday, and I look forward to sharing them and making you a part of them in your heart and head too.. Kay.. as long as I am healthy of body and spirit.. I chose to live life to it’s fullest.. it’s too short.. it’s just to short to sit and say I coulda, I shoulda, I woulda, but I didn’t and the time is now past, I can’t Pamela "Tish" <bop…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:39861fda@news.telinco.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Dear Nevena~ > *Smiles* – well if ya haf read *all* the posts then ya know I haf made it > THRU AML & CML <leukemia> …& when Drs tald me I would no live – I did no > belive them – but looked aboot fir othir ways in which 2 stay in this > *known* factor called life! Ach then I was diagonised wif Huntingtons – haf > a MD now who wishes *his* will instead af the patients <me>. His attempt did > no work- instead he was called on it & if still continues *his* path will > haf 2 deal wit the possible loss af his liscense 2 practice. =) > I agree – life has its up & doons *but* life TIS at least a known factor as > I haf 0 recollection af any othir life! =) Nae am I discounting such could > or can happen just tha` I haf 0 memory af a previous life *therefir* I make > the mast af the 1 I haf!!! > Tis ma belief all here are doing such 2 the best af their abilities. Mast > certainly I know mare now than I did at say 17 – or 20 yrs auld! Life tis an > ongoing process af learning, sharing , caring & generally being a human > being!! > I see such in ALL here! Tis an OKIES thin 2 haf a place 2 state where one > tis at in their life *at tha` moment* & seek guidance or consolation! > This tis wha` *I* see ASL tis 4!! > Perhaps ya see it diffy – I no do !! > Tis *really* easy 2 TOTALLY Love oneself & *still* be lonely – sometimes it > lasts fir a wee bit & sometimes it lasts a bit longer. The bottom line tis > .. we repeat the same lessons UNTIL we NO need 2 learn them anymare. If this > were no true – then a babe would NO walk as once she/he had learned 2 crawl > there would be nae any need 2 grow …bah!! Af course ppl here are growing! > Look aboot u- ALL those ya run in2 wit` in yar life are learning – some at > diffy levels or speeds! > Thankies 4 the love =))) Tis a Grand thin 2 pass on! Huggles & love 2 ya~ > Tisha > i read all of your emails and it makes me sad, but i see the young me in > all of you…..i know i may hurt some of you in this email, so if you are > overly sensitive, please dont read it……..but……..you dont > realize how short and precious this life is….and how if you sit there and > admit you are lonely, you are going to be even lonelier…….slowly but > surely you are killing yourself……..yes, you are…….and if you keep on > living like that……on your death bed, you will be sorry and regret the > way you lived your life……ive been through shit unimaginable to any of > you………and every time someone says something and sort of knocks me > down, i find that little strength within myself…..and i get up > again…..thats what it is all about falling and getting up again……..and > you all have to realize that you are strong, and powerful enough, to leave a > mark in this piece of shit world……..yes, you are……dont be afraid to > go out there and show your real colors…..if you are pissed, then show it > to the world, if you are happy let everyone know…..if you are scared look > around for a shelter……and your comfort zone, but dont stay there > forever…..because while you are hiding, there is this whole world that > passes you by in an instant, and you will be so blinded by the walls you > have build up for yourself…..that you will not see it until its > gone…..so please do me a favor.,……..no matter how much it hurts > inside, or how much you are scared…..do something today that will make > you and everyone you know proud of you…….show yourself the way to love > yourself…..after that you will be loved by many > i love you all, and please smile only if you mean it > nevena
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<big, wide smile> Hello Nevena I hope you keep posting.. and though the group is not always sadness.. it’s just a little torn right now and many are a little internally down right now or discouraged… but with hope it can be what it should be and we can pick each other up again emotionally or rather keep each other from falling to the depth of loneliness.. Your a strong person.. it shows.. even in my own worst days.. I choose to pick myself up, shake myself off, and remember you don’t walk in anyone else’s shoes.. however.. you must walk in your own.. and gee.. I wish to live life, not just pass through it anymore.. before I turn around and find out.. it’s to late and I wasted it all wishing instead of doing.. This group is a wonderful shelter.. however I agree, it should never be forever to anyone, not even me.. for if it is.. then it wasn’t really a support group.. was it, in reality.. Pamela <nev…@mediaone.net> wrote in message
news:398628F6.BC13218A@mediaone.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> i read all of your emails and it makes me sad, but i see the young me in > all of you…..i know i may hurt some of you in this email, so if you > are overly sensitive, please dont read it……..but……..you dont > realize how short and precious this life is….and how if you sit there > and admit you are lonely, you are going to be even lonelier…….slowly > but surely you are killing yourself……..yes, you are…….and if you > keep on living like that……on your death bed, you will be sorry and > regret the way you lived your life……ive been through shit > unimaginable to any of you………and every time someone says something > and sort of knocks me down, i find that little strength within > myself…..and i get up again…..thats what it is all about falling and > getting up again……..and you all have to realize that you are strong, > and powerful enough, to leave a mark in this piece of shit > world……..yes, you are……dont be afraid to go out there and show > your real colors…..if you are pissed, then show it to the world, if > you are happy let everyone know…..if you are scared look around for a > shelter……and your comfort zone, but dont stay there > forever…..because while you are hiding, there is this whole world that > passes you by in an instant, and you will be so blinded by the walls you > have build up for yourself…..that you will not see it until its > gone…..so please do me a favor.,……..no matter how much it hurts > inside, or how much you are scared…..do something today that will make > you and everyone you know proud of you…….show yourself the way to > love yourself…..after that you will be loved by many > i love you all, and please smile only if you mean it > nevena
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NEVENA………………………ahh but to have both youth and wisdom……………………………………… * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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i read all of your emails and it makes me sad, but i see the young me in all of you…..i know i may hurt some of you in this email, so if you are overly sensitive, please dont read it……..but……..you dont realize how short and precious this life is….and how if you sit there and admit you are lonely, you are going to be even lonelier…….slowly but surely you are killing yourself……..yes, you are…….and if you keep on living like that……on your death bed, you will be sorry and regret the way you lived your life……ive been through shit unimaginable to any of you………and every time someone says something and sort of knocks me down, i find that little strength within myself…..and i get up again…..thats what it is all about falling and getting up again……..and you all have to realize that you are strong, and powerful enough, to leave a mark in this piece of shit world……..yes, you are……dont be afraid to go out there and show your real colors…..if you are pissed, then show it to the world, if you are happy let everyone know…..if you are scared look around for a shelter……and your comfort zone, but dont stay there forever…..because while you are hiding, there is this whole world that passes you by in an instant, and you will be so blinded by the walls you have build up for yourself…..that you will not see it until its gone…..so please do me a favor.,……..no matter how much it hurts inside, or how much you are scared…..do something today that will make you and everyone you know proud of you…….show yourself the way to love yourself…..after that you will be loved by many i love you all, and please smile only if you mean it nevena
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Dear Nevena~ *Smiles* – well if ya haf read *all* the posts then ya know I haf made it THRU AML & CML <leukemia> …& when Drs tald me I would no live – I did no belive them – but looked aboot fir othir ways in which 2 stay in this *known* factor called life! Ach then I was diagonised wif Huntingtons – haf a MD now who wishes *his* will instead af the patients <me>. His attempt did no work- instead he was called on it & if still continues *his* path will haf 2 deal wit the possible loss af his liscense 2 practice. =) I agree – life has its up & doons *but* life TIS at least a known factor as I haf 0 recollection af any othir life! =) Nae am I discounting such could or can happen just tha` I haf 0 memory af a previous life *therefir* I make the mast af the 1 I haf!!! Tis ma belief all here are doing such 2 the best af their abilities. Mast certainly I know mare now than I did at say 17 – or 20 yrs auld! Life tis an ongoing process af learning, sharing , caring & generally being a human being!! I see such in ALL here! Tis an OKIES thin 2 haf a place 2 state where one tis at in their life *at tha` moment* & seek guidance or consolation! This tis wha` *I* see ASL tis 4!! Perhaps ya see it diffy – I no do !! Tis *really* easy 2 TOTALLY Love oneself & *still* be lonely – sometimes it lasts fir a wee bit & sometimes it lasts a bit longer. The bottom line tis .. we repeat the same lessons UNTIL we NO need 2 learn them anymare. If this were no true – then a babe would NO walk as once she/he had learned 2 crawl there would be nae any need 2 grow …bah!! Af course ppl here are growing! Look aboot u- ALL those ya run in2 wit` in yar life are learning – some at diffy levels or speeds! Thankies 4 the love =))) Tis a Grand thin 2 pass on! Huggles & love 2 ya~ Tisha i read all of your emails and it makes me sad, but i see the young me in all of you…..i know i may hurt some of you in this email, so if you are overly sensitive, please dont read it……..but……..you dont realize how short and precious this life is….and how if you sit there and admit you are lonely, you are going to be even lonelier…….slowly but surely you are killing yourself……..yes, you are…….and if you keep on living like that……on your death bed, you will be sorry and regret the way you lived your life……ive been through shit unimaginable to any of you………and every time someone says something and sort of knocks me down, i find that little strength within myself…..and i get up again…..thats what it is all about falling and getting up again……..and you all have to realize that you are strong, and powerful enough, to leave a mark in this piece of shit world……..yes, you are……dont be afraid to go out there and show your real colors…..if you are pissed, then show it to the world, if you are happy let everyone know…..if you are scared look around for a shelter……and your comfort zone, but dont stay there forever…..because while you are hiding, there is this whole world that passes you by in an instant, and you will be so blinded by the walls you have build up for yourself…..that you will not see it until its gone…..so please do me a favor.,……..no matter how much it hurts inside, or how much you are scared…..do something today that will make you and everyone you know proud of you…….show yourself the way to love yourself…..after that you will be loved by many i love you all, and please smile only if you mean it nevena
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Hi back at you. Bill Anon wrote: > hi.. I kinda just discovered this newsgroup so that would make me new I > think.. > I’m lonely all the time.. because I don’t really know how to deal with > people.. I never really feel comfortable enough to do anything.. I don’t > know why.. I get nervous even in chat rooms. my only friend died so now > I don’t even have anyone to talk to that understands me.. > but anyway, don’t want to bore you with all the boring details of my > life. > just wanted to say hi
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Hi Anon… a look at my web page will tell you why I smile at your handle… and please share as you please – just look at some of the longer posts (who me?) and you’ll see we enjoy details… that’s how we get to know each other… we bleed and dump and hope for hugs and understanding… sometimes we get a few 
I’ve been living in a lonely limbo, going nowhere and getting there fast, for a couple of years now… most of the time I find a positive perspective as I wander semi-aimlessly through the frustrating challenges – and the caring people in this newsgroup help a lot (even when they don’t know it if you need to mourn your loss, please do… and if you want to find another friend – share more and read more and share more and before you know it, you’ll find some through words here… it’s a good place to be… welcome… honest love, ric – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Anon wrote in message <36355EED.534D4…@asarian-host.org>… >hi.. I kinda just discovered this newsgroup so that would make me new I >think.. >I’m lonely all the time.. because I don’t really know how to deal with >people.. I never really feel comfortable enough to do anything.. I don’t >know why.. I get nervous even in chat rooms. my only friend died so now >I don’t even have anyone to talk to that understands me.. >but anyway, don’t want to bore you with all the boring details of my >life. >just wanted to say hi
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>hi.. I kinda just discovered this newsgroup so that would make me new I >think.. >I’m lonely all the time.. because I don’t really know how to deal with >people.. I never really feel comfortable enough to do anything.. I don’t >know why.. I get nervous even in chat rooms. my only friend died so now >I don’t even have anyone to talk to that understands me.. >but anyway, don’t want to bore you with all the boring details of my >life. >just wanted to say hi
Dear Annwyn: Now that you’ve said "hi"…why don’t you just get right back here and tell us about you. I love to hear about people and the details of your life would not be boring at all. Sometimes it helps to share some of those details, ya know. I’m sorry about the loss of your good friend. Yes…true friends are hard to come by these days….but if you’ll stay with us as you go through your loneliness, I believe you’ll find yourself some new friends…and I’d like to be counted among those. I found this place one night after I had finished helping my daughter with her homework….and just went exploring. That was back in March….and I couldn’t believe that such a place existed !!! Soooo…come on in and stay with us for a while. Hugs and Smiles, Gina "Now this old world don’t give much for choosing, You can spend a lifetime driving yourself wild, But I can take its punches laughing, don’t mind losing, Just as long as I get to see you smile, every once in a while." — Rea Chris
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Hi, there! I am reposting your message in hope that you are still out there lurking and that you will reply…. If you are feeling lonely, you are in the right place…. e all feel lonely each in our different situations and circumstances, but the feeling is similar in the loneliness part, where getting to exchange and knowing each other allows us to feel less lonely exactly in having someone to talk to, or to exchange with…. I have been here for a month and a half only…. I hope you will write again… If you are out there and would feel more comfortable writing to me at my address, then I would be happy to hear from you! Chloe Anon – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -(ann…@asarian-host.org) writes: > hi.. I kinda just discovered this newsgroup so that would make me new I > think.. > I’m lonely all the time.. because I don’t really know how to deal with > people.. I never really feel comfortable enough to do anything.. I don’t > know why.. I get nervous even in chat rooms. my only friend died so now > I don’t even have anyone to talk to that understands me.. > but anyway, don’t want to bore you with all the boring details of my > life. > just wanted to say hi
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Hi there Anon! Welcome to ASL! In article <36355EED.534D4…@asarian-host.org>, Anon <ann…@asarian-host.org> wrote: > hi.. I kinda just discovered this newsgroup so that would make me new I > think..
OK, and you’ll know a little more visiting the ASL WebSite, please enter throug my ASL page <http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/asl.html>. You may also take a peer to our neverending work-in-progress FAQ. > I’m lonely all the time.. because I don’t really know how to deal with > people.. I never really feel comfortable enough to do anything.. I don’t > know why.. I get nervous even in chat rooms. my only friend died so now > I don’t even have anyone to talk to that understands me..
Very sorry hearing this, Anon. And I hope that we can help a little. This kind of communication is more relax than chat rooms, you may take your time before replying. You’ll sure find some good advice here. > but anyway, don’t want to bore you with all the boring details of my > life.
That would be OK, friend, feel free to share, it is perfectly on-topic here. > just wanted to say hi
So, hi and welcome again. I hope that you’ll enjoy your stay here. — All the best Raffaele <http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/> ———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own
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Hey Raffaele !!! Where have you been lately? I was beginning to wonder and …well, okay…maybe even worry a little…about you. 
I know you’ve been busy. How are you and how are things going ? Well….don’t work too hard…and try to save some time for us here, too. Hugs and Smiles, Gina (who was never logical enough to excel in mathmatics) ;-) "Well, I ain’t often right but I’ve never been wrong. Seldom turns out the way it does in a song." — Grateful Dead
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Hi Anon, Welcome to this newsgroup, I am glad that you discovered us. Please make yourself comfortable, pull up a chair and have a cup of tea here, with your friends. Yeah, I know I should say coffee, but on an empty stomach, I cannot touch the stuff I am so sorry that your only friend died. But the good part is that you have had a friend before, so you know how to make one. Want to try again? Here is my hand, please take it and let me hold yours for a while. What you say? You’ve been in chat rooms? I don’t think I will ever do that, far too scary to even try it. So you see, we all got things that we are afraid of…. Where are you from? I’m from the Netherlands, and I am married but very lonely. And one day it all became too much for me to bear, and on that same day I found this place and cried. Yes very vulnerable but I was so desperate I did not care about making a fool of myself. But nobody here told me that I was a fool. They held me and helped me to dry my tears and sea the sun shine again. Yes that star will always be there, maybe she is playing peekaboo today with the clouds but another friend taught me: there is not a cloud so dark, that it does not have a silver lining…. Welcome here, if you want to talk some more, we are here to listen. I don’t think you could ever be boring, sharing experiences about our lives is what this place is all about. Talk, or read as other people are talking, whatever feels good for you. Some messages are very small and some are very big, and all our welcome here. I found a poem this morning that looked real beautiful, so I would like to share it with you. I hope that you will like it too. Love and hugs, Caroline What if you slept? And what if, in your sleep you dreamed? And what if, in your dream, you went to heaven and there plucked a strange and beautiful flower? And what if, when you awoke, you had the flower in your hand? Samuel Taylor Coleridge Anon heeft geschreven in bericht <36355EED.534D4…@asarian-host.org>… :hi.. I kinda just discovered this newsgroup so that would make me new I :think.. :I’m lonely all the time.. because I don’t really know how to deal with :people.. I never really feel comfortable enough to do anything.. I don’t :know why.. I get nervous even in chat rooms. my only friend died so now :I don’t even have anyone to talk to that understands me.. :but anyway, don’t want to bore you with all the boring details of my :life. :just wanted to say hi :
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hi.. I kinda just discovered this newsgroup so that would make me new I think.. I’m lonely all the time.. because I don’t really know how to deal with people.. I never really feel comfortable enough to do anything.. I don’t know why.. I get nervous even in chat rooms. my only friend died so now I don’t even have anyone to talk to that understands me.. but anyway, don’t want to bore you with all the boring details of my life. just wanted to say hi
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Stop your fibbing dear, this is Daddy and I know without a doubt you’re a little nervous. We’re here for ya hon. I hope this finds you feeling better. Love Dad — Eddie (Chief) Wonders of the World Are All by themselves – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -jgum…@banet.net wrote in message <36DD89C7.2558B…@banet.net>… >Hello group!Well I had my surgery today,I seem to be doing pretty >good!They say it was an infection in my sinuses,but I’m sure they really >cant be too sure until they get the results back from the lab!I am just >soooooo happy it is out if me!The surgery hurt but I still think it is >better to just have it out of me! >THANK-YOU for being sa concerned! > HUGS JOJO
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Hello group!Well I had my surgery today,I seem to be doing pretty good!They say it was an infection in my sinuses,but I’m sure they really cant be too sure until they get the results back from the lab!I am just soooooo happy it is out if me!The surgery hurt but I still think it is better to just have it out of me! THANK-YOU for being sa concerned! HUGS JOJO
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Gday . How fares all on this colourless , odourless , noiseless , numb and black eve ? This one is de-lurking and will from now on find some solace in this ng . I’m gonna just my mind’s sordid contents spill into the post after this paragrasph , so feel free to stop reading there . If there was such a thing , I would subscribe to a group called alt.support.empty-shell-of-a-once-human . I’m a twenty one year old male supermarket attendant and ailing studier of computer science by day . By night I sleep . And that is my entire life . I haven’t had a friend for years . I have no source of vent . No one knows what is really inside of me , not even my immediate family , not even me . My entire perception of reality , the *me* that can colour the world is formed only by echoes and feedback of my own thoughts . I can’t talk to anyone and let their guidance help to form me . So all of me is a reflection , a distorted and fading echo of a real me that used to exist before everything fell away . Do you , the reader — the fellow lonely populace out their on the other side of my monitor — come from the same situation ? Do you have at least someone in the world other than yourself in whom to confide — with whom to show your true self ? My life , every conscious moment is a dialogue with myself — like myself is another person within me (this is not a very good expression of what I mean – I’m not saying I’m of a dual personality – more like one personality constantly interogating itself ) . Talking to anyone else is so very hard . I just cannot relate to a human that is not me . When you only ever deal with yourself Can anyone share with me your own experience of loneliness , just so I can have some perspective other than my own ? I
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looking in the mirror I see.. a reflection of loneliness in thee.. welcome to Alt.support.loneliness Manstrum key words.. support and loneliness.. and yup.. tis why we’re for the most part all here too.. Pamela "Mastrum Avrette" <miscre…@optusnet.com.au> wrote in message
news:39ccd234$0$26528$7f31c96c@news01.syd.optusnet.com.au… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Gday . > How fares all on this colourless , odourless , noiseless , numb and black > eve ? > This one is de-lurking and will from now on find some solace in this ng . > I’m gonna just my mind’s sordid contents spill into the post after this > paragrasph , so feel free to stop reading there . If there was such a thing > , I would subscribe to a group called > alt.support.empty-shell-of-a-once-human . I’m a twenty one year old male > supermarket attendant and ailing studier of computer science by day . By > night I sleep . And that is my entire life . > I haven’t had a friend for years . I have no source of vent . No one knows > what is really inside of me , not even my immediate family , not even me . > My entire perception of reality , the *me* that can colour the world is > formed only by echoes and feedback of my own thoughts . I can’t talk to > anyone and let their guidance help to form me . So all of me is a reflection > , a distorted and fading echo of a real me that used to exist before > everything fell away . > Do you , the reader — the fellow lonely populace out their on the other > side of my monitor — come from the same situation ? Do you have at least > someone in the world other than yourself in whom to confide — with whom to > show your true self ? My life , every conscious moment is a dialogue with > myself — like myself is another person within me (this is not a very good > expression of what I mean – I’m not saying I’m of a dual personality – more > like one personality constantly interogating itself ) . > Talking to anyone else is so very hard . I just cannot relate to a human > that is not me . When you only ever deal with yourself > Can anyone share with me your own experience of loneliness , just so I can > have some perspective other than my own ? I
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Hi again, Ludlow, All right!! Sounds great then!:) Again, the critic show I saw where it was reviewed talked about how people were sick to their stomach in theaters, and about how that was due only to the camera movements being unprofessional, camera on a shoulder, and cameraman moving the lense too much, according to the critic in question. I then had put it aside in my mind thinking it must not be worth much…. But critics…I still need to find a movie critic that shares my tastes:):). I know one point of reference: if my sister Gigi likes it, means I will find it the most insipid, boring thing on earth L:). That is what I usually go by to NOT go see boring movies:). But other than that, what movie is good or not, and who to ask their opinion without such a difference in taste that I can know their picks would fit mine, that is another story. My son sure is one who’s tastes correspond to mine as far as movies go. We had a great time talking about the movies too and exchanging views on it over a coffee and a pop after theater, where he is an actor and then talks about all the acting techniques, but also the directing, the special effects, etc, where I will be more one to think of it in terms of scenario (soemtimes he will love soemthign for its speial effects and acting, for instance where I find it not too interesting a movie still, while granting that all those things were fine, if the scenario was a flop in my eyes?). He is living on his own now and on a tour with a play, but arrived in Ottawa to drive to Montreal instantly, calling me hwoever to say he would be here tomorroe and elave on Wednesday. Tuesdays are cheap theater nights…Maybe I can go see it with him then! That would be great too with halloween coming up!:) Loved your way of replying, which is exactly what I wanted to know, without giving away any of the punches. Thanks for the info, and for post replying to me!:) __ "ludlow" – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -(lud…@gateway.net) writes: > Don’t worry, Blair Witch isn’t bloody. All the violence takes place > off-screen, which makes it even creepier. The last scene in the movie still > gives me chills when I think about it. > — > Edward > Eleonore Beaudoin <bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA> wrote in message > news:7v0i0t$mr3@freenet-news.carleton.ca… >> Hi, Ludlow, >> Welcome to the ng. >> "ludlow" (lud…@gateway.net) writes: >> > I’m new here. Just wanted to say "Hi." Seen any 1) good movies, >> Not in a while. But there are two I would like to see. >> Blair Witch project, perhpas and another one…What was it…. >> Oh, me and menory, I just know it is with Brice Willism came >> out a little while back…Sixth sense? >> And perhaps the latest wiht H Ford. Dunno if the movie is >> very good, but I like the actor. >> 2) read >> > any good books, >> Define "good":) and specify how far back I can look:) >> Well, I read a thesis in sociology. Would that count? >> I am rereading Dostoievsky, Le Joueur (The Player). >> 3)and/or heard any good music? >> Lately I heard two very old tunes they started playing again >> that were somehow never played anymore..I dunno if CDs would >> ahve been "remade" and all would have been out of stock >> since ages otherwise, and both I find are superb still. >> The names do not come to mind now…. >> Not recent things oldies but special music of their own,m >> each of them. I wodnered why they were not played sicne all >> those eyars like he other "classics", but it was nice to >> rediscover those after years of not having heard them at >> all. >> > 1) Bought "The Blair Witch Project-it creeps me out everytime I watch > it. >> I heard a critic on tv say that the "sickening" effect was >> the big thing, due top the camera movement. He othewise said >> nothing much of the movie but did not seem impressed >> himself. Yet today you are the second person to mention it >> to me….Is it like very bloody and that stuff? That I donlt >> care for any more than that. I prefer the heavy suspense in >> horrors than the overly descriptive type. I then am not sure >> if I want to see Blair Witch cause I dunno which it is…. >> Maybe you could without giving the punch of course (if any >> at all, I don’t even know if that would apply to the movie ) >> perhaps you could tell me if it is bloody horror with >> special effects and close ups on the cuts and so on, which I >> find superfluous and a sign of lack of mastering the suspense >> in the scenario anyway, or if just the camera effect…? >> Again, welcome to asl. >> Talk to you later? >> Feel free to email would you wish to. >> CU >> __ >> > 2) Just got "Laughable Loves" by Milan Kundera-because "The Unbearable >> > Lightness of Being" is an all-time fave. >> > 3) "The Fragile" by Nine Inch Nails and "Transcendental Medication" by >> > Inger Lorre-because debilitating depression is one of my hobbies. ;-) >> > — >> > Edward
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Hi, Ludlow, Welcome to the ng. "ludlow" (lud…@gateway.net) writes: > I’m new here. Just wanted to say "Hi." Seen any 1) good movies,
Not in a while. But there are two I would like to see. Blair Witch project, perhpas and another one…What was it…. Oh, me and menory, I just know it is with Brice Willism came out a little while back…Sixth sense? And perhaps the latest wiht H Ford. Dunno if the movie is very good, but I like the actor. 2) read > any good books,
Define "good":) and specify how far back I can look:) Well, I read a thesis in sociology. Would that count? I am rereading Dostoievsky, Le Joueur (The Player). 3)and/or heard any good music? Lately I heard two very old tunes they started playing again that were somehow never played anymore..I dunno if CDs would ahve been "remade" and all would have been out of stock since ages otherwise, and both I find are superb still. The names do not come to mind now…. Not recent things oldies but special music of their own,m each of them. I wodnered why they were not played sicne all those eyars like he other "classics", but it was nice to rediscover those after years of not having heard them at all. > > 1) Bought "The Blair Witch Project-it creeps me out everytime I watch it.
I heard a critic on tv say that the "sickening" effect was the big thing, due top the camera movement. He othewise said nothing much of the movie but did not seem impressed himself. Yet today you are the second person to mention it to me….Is it like very bloody and that stuff? That I donlt care for any more than that. I prefer the heavy suspense in horrors than the overly descriptive type. I then am not sure if I want to see Blair Witch cause I dunno which it is…. Maybe you could without giving the punch of course (if any at all, I don’t even know if that would apply to the movie ) perhaps you could tell me if it is bloody horror with special effects and close ups on the cuts and so on, which I find superfluous and a sign of lack of mastering the suspense in the scenario anyway, or if just the camera effect…? Again, welcome to asl. Talk to you later? Feel free to email would you wish to. CU __ – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> 2) Just got "Laughable Loves" by Milan Kundera-because "The Unbearable > Lightness of Being" is an all-time fave. > 3) "The Fragile" by Nine Inch Nails and "Transcendental Medication" by > Inger Lorre-because debilitating depression is one of my hobbies. ;-) > — > Edward
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Don’t worry, Blair Witch isn’t bloody. All the violence takes place off-screen, which makes it even creepier. The last scene in the movie still gives me chills when I think about it. — Edward Eleonore Beaudoin <bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA> wrote in message
news:7v0i0t$mr3@freenet-news.carleton.ca… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi, Ludlow, > Welcome to the ng. > "ludlow" (lud…@gateway.net) writes: > > I’m new here. Just wanted to say "Hi." Seen any 1) good movies, > Not in a while. But there are two I would like to see. > Blair Witch project, perhpas and another one…What was it…. > Oh, me and menory, I just know it is with Brice Willism came > out a little while back…Sixth sense? > And perhaps the latest wiht H Ford. Dunno if the movie is > very good, but I like the actor. > 2) read > > any good books, > Define "good":) and specify how far back I can look:) > Well, I read a thesis in sociology. Would that count? > I am rereading Dostoievsky, Le Joueur (The Player). > 3)and/or heard any good music? > Lately I heard two very old tunes they started playing again > that were somehow never played anymore..I dunno if CDs would > ahve been "remade" and all would have been out of stock > since ages otherwise, and both I find are superb still. > The names do not come to mind now…. > Not recent things oldies but special music of their own,m > each of them. I wodnered why they were not played sicne all > those eyars like he other "classics", but it was nice to > rediscover those after years of not having heard them at > all. > > 1) Bought "The Blair Witch Project-it creeps me out everytime I watch it. > I heard a critic on tv say that the "sickening" effect was > the big thing, due top the camera movement. He othewise said > nothing much of the movie but did not seem impressed > himself. Yet today you are the second person to mention it > to me….Is it like very bloody and that stuff? That I donlt > care for any more than that. I prefer the heavy suspense in > horrors than the overly descriptive type. I then am not sure > if I want to see Blair Witch cause I dunno which it is…. > Maybe you could without giving the punch of course (if any > at all, I don’t even know if that would apply to the movie ) > perhaps you could tell me if it is bloody horror with > special effects and close ups on the cuts and so on, which I > find superfluous and a sign of lack of mastering the suspense > in the scenario anyway, or if just the camera effect…? > Again, welcome to asl. > Talk to you later? > Feel free to email would you wish to. > CU > __ > > 2) Just got "Laughable Loves" by Milan Kundera-because "The Unbearable > > Lightness of Being" is an all-time fave. > > 3) "The Fragile" by Nine Inch Nails and "Transcendental Medication" by > > Inger Lorre-because debilitating depression is one of my hobbies. ;-) > > — > > Edward
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I’m new here. Just wanted to say "Hi." Seen any 1) good movies, 2) read any good books, 3)and/or heard any good music? 1) Bought "The Blair Witch Project-it creeps me out everytime I watch it. 2) Just got "Laughable Loves" by Milan Kundera-because "The Unbearable Lightness of Being" is an all-time fave. 3) "The Fragile" by Nine Inch Nails and "Transcendental Medication" by Inger Lorre-because debilitating depression is one of my hobbies. ;-) — Edward
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David B wrote in message <01bd6c77$f5ee8700$7a6d45c2@dave>… >hello adams ….
G’day david, nice to hear from you, just finished the day mate. I was just thinking how many songs are based on mondays, like the boomtown rats ‘i don’t like mondays’, ‘just another manic monday’ by someone, and others which i sing, but can’t give the artist or song title, ‘blue monday’, new order, there’s another one. Anyhow David I hope your are looking after yourself, thanks for responding but I think that insomia is releasing me from its vice. Its near 3am and I becomming unstable. Things have been picking up for me lately since I first posted here. Just in the form of me getting out and looking for work, its something, i’ll keep you posted if you like. Cya friend Adams
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Yeah i’m glad to hear your getting out and about a bit .. I just got in from work and didnt really have much time to say anything earlier. Anyway i better go and get the dinner on Later mate David
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Oh, good! Now, I’ll read your posts with an Australian accent! Hugs, J. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Adams wrote: > David B wrote in message <01bd6c77$f5ee8700$7a6d45c2@dave>… > >hello adams …. > G’day david, nice to hear from you, just finished the day mate. I was just > thinking how many songs are based on mondays, like the boomtown rats ‘i > don’t like mondays’, ‘just another manic monday’ by someone, and others > which i sing, but can’t give the artist or song title, ‘blue monday’, new > order, there’s another one. Anyhow David I hope your are looking after > yourself, thanks for responding but I think that insomia is releasing me > from its vice. Its near 3am and I becomming unstable. Things have been > picking up for me lately since I first posted here. Just in the form of me > getting out and looking for work, its something, i’ll keep you posted if you > like. > Cya friend > Adams
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Noone (who is really someone) wrote: >I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely >myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. >It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel >confident that I can talk. But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m >interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. >Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all >of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
Hi !!! …. and yes do come on in and talk with us! It is true that the more you isolate yourself, the more difficult it is to dig your way out of that hole and get involved with life again. As long as you keep trying…you’ll be fine. Don’t let yourself give up…..even when it’s a struggle to get out and do things. As you struggle with this loneliness…which some of us here know very well, please do stay with us and meet some very good friends here to talk with….people that may be able to help you in your lonely dilemma. Any time you need to talk, please remember that I am here to listen, as well as others. This is a good place for you to stop and rest along the way. Smiles to another new friend…. Gina "Just Hold On Loosely But don’t let go….. If you cling to tightly You’re gonna lose control….." 38 Special
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Hello Someone! Welcome to ASL! In article <01be1417$82fd6340$bf1d5cd1@fcb>, "somone" <u…@yahoo.com> wrote: > Figured I’d change my nickname to something a little more positive, yet > still ambiguous . I’ll be "someone" from now on.
You see that it works! I haven’t replied to Noone. More … > noone <u…@yahoo.com> wrote in article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>… > > I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely > > myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. > > It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel > > confident that I can talk. But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m > > interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day.
Speak, and you’ll find somebody listening. I’m sure that you will, here in ASL there is plently of supportive people. You may gain confidence by some on-line chat (posts, emails or others), so please do. > > Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all > > of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
That’s OK. Speak to all will be more and more difficult, as the group is growing. You are one more poster right now. Care for paying a visit to my ASL page? <http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/asl.html>. That’s only a click away from the ASL WebSite. I look forward to further correspondence with you. Friendly yours Raffaele ———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own
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I did almost reply to "noone", but I’d so much rather reply to "someone". Glad you decided to be someone. Somehow, writing seems easier than actual speaking to people, doesn’t it. Certainly no problem with "meeting" people in this ng. Perhaps, if you get used to interacting by writing, it will make it easier for you "talk" to people when you do meet them. I’m glad to see you say that you keep trying and going out and doing things. I admire people who see that they have a problem and keep trying to do something about it. With that kind of attitude, I think you *will* "figure it out one day." Good luck and welcome. Kristy (Do I believe I’ve been writing "welcomes"!?! Brad!!) In article <01be1417$82fd6340$bf1d5cd1@fcb>, "somone" <u…@yahoo.com> wrote: > Figured I’d change my nickname to something a little more positive, yet > still ambiguous . I’ll be "someone" from now on. > noone <u…@yahoo.com> wrote in article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>… > > I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely > > myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. > > It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel > > confident that I can talk. But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m > > interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. > > Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all > > of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
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"Somebody Said" by Harry Chapin Originally found in Living Room Suite, 1978. Somebody said…Where’s the music goin’ Somebody said…It’s gone Somebody said…With this bad wind a blowin’ Will the music keep a rolling on I had to ask myself Why it is makin’ me A minstrel man from cradle to grave Should there be somewhere else It could be takin’ me As it rolls on over like a wave Somebody said…We got to find the words Got to, got to be an answer there Somebody said that…You never get heard ‘Cause nobody really cares Do your feet just dance Where the waves begin do you stop thinkin’ as you’re sinkin’ below Or do you take this chance to sail on the wind When so many in the water chose to row Some may curse the crippled Some try to hide the hurt Some they hate the hungry But who’s dying down there in the dirt Somebody said…Has the man enlightened us Somebody said…Who knows And then the little boys said…Well I may be frightened But the Emperor has got no clothes As the passion dies But the beat goes on The conductor got us singing his song He’s been feedin’ these lies That we’ve been feasting upon But now we’ve been at the banquet too long Somebody said…Where are the dreamers Somebody said…Dead Somebody said…Here comes the holy rollers Tryin’ to sell us all the screamers instead Since we were once deceived When we received the call Now the cynics are the prophets of the day And now the weak ones grieve As the strong ones fall And the rest of us have nothing to say Some suffer in silent sadness Some come to worship pain Some just welcome madness But you can’t come in from the rain Somebody said Somebody said… —————————————— a touch of harry… honest love, ric – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -raffa…@my-dejanews.com wrote in message <737q7h$p1…@nnrp1.dejanews.com>… >Yes, I’ve already replied to Somebody (was: Nobody), then Somebody >is no longer Nobody… if you are both nobodies, since I’m a nobody >myself, I suggest to go nowhere in particular. Me too, I’m heading >the same direction. >Just kidding… but actually I’m not sure if I’m myself or somebody >else. For if I am myself, it is of no use to mind the business of somebody >else… if I’m somebody else, it is of no use to mind my own business. >At first, I was convinced to be agnostic. Now, I’m no longer sure. >All those nobodies are kind of confusing… nobody listens? Nobody >listens? >This is my best post. But no, it isn’t. Who caresssszzz zzzz zzzz? > Trollie the Soundblaster (a barbarian) >In article <5qG52.8583$8G5.2…@news.cwix.com>, > "ric" <can…@writeme.com> wrote: >> Dear Nobody in particular, >> I would really love to tell you what I think of your post… but I don’t have >> time to respond, I’m much too busy ignoring you. >> Nobody in common >> PS… I receive a letter from Nobody special yesterday and he said Nobody he >> knew was ignoring you as well… I told them both I’d let you know when I >> stopped ignoring you… Nobody answered. >> obl…@my-dejanews.com wrote in message <735098$j0…@nnrp1.dejanews.com>… >> >In article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>, >> > "noone" <u…@yahoo.com> wrote: >> >> I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely >> >> myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. >> >Me too. Everyone ignores me. Recently I gave a letter to someone and now she >> >ignores me too. I even ignore myself sometimes. >> >> It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel >> >> confident that I can talk. >> >I know exactly what you mean. >> >> But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m >> >> interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. >> >What sort of things are you interested in? >> >(sorry if you’ve already said in a later post, I am trying to catch up with a >> >backlog of reading after being offline for ages) >> >> Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all >> >> of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks. >> >Thanks for posting, No-one! Hope to see a lot more of you… >> >Nobody in particular >> >———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- >> >http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own ><http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/> >———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- >http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own
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Dear Nobody in particular, I would really love to tell you what I think of your post… but I don’t have time to respond, I’m much too busy ignoring you. Nobody in common PS… I receive a letter from Nobody special yesterday and he said Nobody he knew was ignoring you as well… I told them both I’d let you know when I stopped ignoring you… Nobody answered. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -obl…@my-dejanews.com wrote in message <735098$j0…@nnrp1.dejanews.com>… >In article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>, > "noone" <u…@yahoo.com> wrote: >> I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely >> myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. >Me too. Everyone ignores me. Recently I gave a letter to someone and now she >ignores me too. I even ignore myself sometimes. >> It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel >> confident that I can talk. >I know exactly what you mean. >> But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m >> interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. >What sort of things are you interested in? >(sorry if you’ve already said in a later post, I am trying to catch up with a >backlog of reading after being offline for ages) >> Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all >> of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks. >Thanks for posting, No-one! Hope to see a lot more of you… >Nobody in particular >———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- >http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own
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Yes, I’ve already replied to Somebody (was: Nobody), then Somebody is no longer Nobody… if you are both nobodies, since I’m a nobody myself, I suggest to go nowhere in particular. Me too, I’m heading the same direction. Just kidding… but actually I’m not sure if I’m myself or somebody else. For if I am myself, it is of no use to mind the business of somebody else… if I’m somebody else, it is of no use to mind my own business. At first, I was convinced to be agnostic. Now, I’m no longer sure. All those nobodies are kind of confusing… nobody listens? Nobody listens? This is my best post. But no, it isn’t. Who caresssszzz zzzz zzzz? Trollie the Soundblaster (a barbarian) In article <5qG52.8583$8G5.2…@news.cwix.com>, "ric" <can…@writeme.com> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Dear Nobody in particular, > I would really love to tell you what I think of your post… but I don’t have > time to respond, I’m much too busy ignoring you. > Nobody in common > PS… I receive a letter from Nobody special yesterday and he said Nobody he > knew was ignoring you as well… I told them both I’d let you know when I > stopped ignoring you… Nobody answered. > obl…@my-dejanews.com wrote in message <735098$j0…@nnrp1.dejanews.com>… > >In article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>, > > "noone" <u…@yahoo.com> wrote: > >> I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely > >> myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. > >Me too. Everyone ignores me. Recently I gave a letter to someone and now she > >ignores me too. I even ignore myself sometimes. > >> It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel > >> confident that I can talk. > >I know exactly what you mean. > >> But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m > >> interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. > >What sort of things are you interested in? > >(sorry if you’ve already said in a later post, I am trying to catch up with a > >backlog of reading after being offline for ages) > >> Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all > >> of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks. > >Thanks for posting, No-one! Hope to see a lot more of you… > >Nobody in particular > >———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- > >http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own
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In article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>, "noone" <u…@yahoo.com> wrote: > I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely > myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people.
Me too. Everyone ignores me. Recently I gave a letter to someone and now she ignores me too. I even ignore myself sometimes. > It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel > confident that I can talk.
I know exactly what you mean. > But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m > interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day.
What sort of things are you interested in? (sorry if you’ve already said in a later post, I am trying to catch up with a backlog of reading after being offline for ages) > Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all > of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
Thanks for posting, No-one! Hope to see a lot more of you… Nobody in particular ———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own
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Hey someone, Keep up the positive outlook…It is much better than the alternative…I don’t think there is any one way to do it (going out and meeting new people), but it is good that you keep trying. I’m sure you will figure it out someday, my best suggestion is just to keep doing what you are interested in and keep trying to talk to people. You say that the less you do it the more difficult it becomes…well onthe other hand maybe it will get easier if you do it more often. Anyway, welcome to ASL. I’m sure that you will meet a lot of great people here…just keep talking to us take care, jon – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -somone wrote: > Figured I’d change my nickname to something a little more positive, yet > still ambiguous . I’ll be "someone" from now on. > noone <u…@yahoo.com> wrote in article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>… > > I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely > > myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. > > It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel > > confident that I can talk. But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m > > interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. > > Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all > > of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
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Hi, Someone! Yes, I believe you are "someone" and am glad that’s who you’ll be from now on! WElcome to ASL! Shalom, Nick In article <01be1417$82fd6340$bf1d5cd1@fcb>, u…@yahoo.com says… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Figured I’d change my nickname to something a little more positive, yet >still ambiguous . I’ll be "someone" from now on. >noone <u…@yahoo.com> wrote in article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>… >> I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely >> myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. >> It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel >> confident that I can talk. But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m >> interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. >> Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all >> of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
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I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel confident that I can talk. But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
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Figured I’d change my nickname to something a little more positive, yet still ambiguous . I’ll be "someone" from now on. noone <u…@yahoo.com> wrote in article <01be1413$a6449840$441d5cd1@fcb>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I’ve been lurking for a few days and thought I would say hi. I’m lonely > myself and have a difficult time meeting people and talking to people. > It’s becoming a real problem since the more I don’t talk, the less I feel > confident that I can talk. But I keep trying to go out and do things I’m > interested in, so who knows. Maybe I’ll figure it out one day. > Anyway, I’ll be posting here, if that’s ok. I hope to talk to any or all > of you. Emails are welcome. Thanks.
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Kristy, kristy4…@my-dejanews.com wrote: > I admire people > who see that they have a problem and keep trying to do something about it.
Actually, that’s one of _the_ main things I’ve noticed about you–you seem to be actively intent on improving yourself and understanding yourself better. It seems to be a very rare trait, and definitely one to be proud of exhibiting. I have also noticed a decided amount of determination on the part of some ASLers to overcome the problems and difficulties they face, and this has also won my admiration more than once. > Kristy > (Do I believe I’ve been writing "welcomes"!?! Brad!!)
LOL … =) … Brad
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am new here but not new to lonliness does anyone here ever stop feeling lonely? i email to those who email a note
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good question….i ask the same 1 myself………does it eva stop????? <pacificg…@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:22203-3A148020-7@storefull-115.iap.bryant.webtv.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> am new here > but not new to lonliness > does anyone here ever > stop feeling lonely? > i email to those who email > a note
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thx u were nice enuf to beak the silence how u doing?
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pacificg…@webtv.net wrote: > does anyone here ever > stop feeling lonely?
I do. I’m only part-time lonely. –Adml. Celebok http://home.earthlink.net/~celebok
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Celebok (cele…@earthlink.net) writes: > pacificg…@webtv.net wrote: >> does anyone here ever >> stop feeling lonely? > I do. I’m only part-time lonely.
L:) Yeah, loneliness we might forget is situational, not a condition/ disease that would be incurable. It has relapses and it has break throughs;-). It can be however related to one’s condition, be it social, financial, geographical, physical, etc, etc. Where even there, the way we relate to the *situations* around us will make the difference… Often too, just a change of perspective, looking at the same situation differently, can bring a welcomed change and allow us to feel less lonely. Hi, Celebok, I do read your posts, even if I stopped at a point since a few attmepts showed no reply from you. Either you were busy and happy with exchanging as you were, or either my posts did not show on your server, or either you donlt like the person you woudl think I am (meaning we do not know each other at all, and that it then coudl not be that you would not reply out of not "liking me", since we do not know each other. In the far past, when I had emil penpals and was not on this ng, I learnt that events in poeple;s life can make it so they have less time and that in time, the penship can become more sporadic and distant, without any wrogn beign there. It nevertheless used to elave me alone and with no penpals when suddenly two or three woudl get married, move to a new place and start a new job, etc, etc. Where after I lived that a few times, I decided to change my way of doing things to not be left to feel alone when this or that penpal would be busier with their life or on a new direction where they woudl no longer be writing regularly. Of course, one always wishes for that penpal where things click, where that oen might be harder to find than the penpals where it is more a friendly acquaintance than email friendship, things not clicking sponmtaneously with everyone. But I found that staying opened to any penship that comes along -as long as respectful and plesant, i.e. no put downs or otherwise abusive- helped me make it so that I would not miss people so much as to just be bored with email all together. It might be worth it to try and at least know poeple a little bit to see if they truely are as one thinks or imagines, to see new penships of various levels develop and keep things alive and not see us be totally lost when a given penpal or two are suddenly busy with new events in their life… Worked for me anyway. And btw, yes, way more people than those that post here do read this ng. Many times through the year some poeple that were either too shy to post or too sensitive to post or simply prefered not posting for various reasons of their own, emailed me, which has let me know that way more read us than those that post. So we never do know if what we write helps soemone. I was surprised to oen day see some people express that my writing of my little daily things, as I was ill then started gettign better gradually and hunted for work, thens tarted working as a waitress, then changed jobs, felt to them like what inspired them, as they felt it was genuine, and not just superficial chit chat, where that was somehow meaningful to them. Yet, before they said so, no one was answerign any of my posts, which got to eb written practically like diaries so used I got to the fact no one answered them anyway. Even soemthign that might look aniodine to talk about, my bord, in the last eyars, made many write and post about how sorry they were and offer conforting words as my bird died, where I again was surprised to think that maybe soem had read me and had got used to that little bird. I coudl also think that the smiels, the laughter and the love that little thign brought me was somehow made known and shared with others, where maybe that little bird then helped a few smile around the globe, which in itself is a nice consolation for his death…. So see we never do know for sure how many read us… And the number of replies are not indicative of that per se either… Your celebok reports are in a way like my posts I do that are liek a diary mode, i.e. not soemthign that is creating a conversation per se, just giving to others to know you and your way of thinking, being, writing, etc. For months, I have not seen much that inpisred me per se on the ng. I went on anyway, thinking that after all, I joined here lookign for someoen that things coudl click with as a good penpal, on a same wavelenght, soemthign I know is rare and not to be expected to happen instantly then. I however appreciate the replies and exchange in here, which exactly help me in that loneliness I feel until I find soemone on a same wavelenght than me. I found a few through the years. And had company along the way, which does count for a lot in fightign loneliness too! Just wanted to elt you knwo that I too read your posts, and that I still do read them now, though I do not read all posts on some days, working odd hours. Like now, leaving for a 12 hour shoft which I better rush to get to! Take care and best to you, Chloe > > –Adml. Celebok > http://home.earthlink.net/~celebok
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